“You deserve someone who makes you feel as if you have been struck by lightning. Don’t you dare settle for fine.”

-Roy Kent, Ted Lasso, Season 2, Episode 1

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Register for short-term Relationship Reset sessions with me to rock out your love, sex, and dating life —no matter where you’re starting from or what you’re going through. If your relationships are in deep shit and hanging by a thread, or you just want a tune-up or to change and improve the dynamics, let’s talk! Whether you’re part of a couple, a triad, a blended family, a polycule, flying solo, committed friendship, or navigating a breakup or ending, or getting back out there to date and fall in love again. I help you heal old wounds, break free from intergenerational curses, deepen intimacy and sense of safety, and build the safe, supportive relationships you deserve. Let’s meet over coffee at my Amsterdam, Netherlands office or connect online or by phone from anywhere in the world, and dive into real wisdom, heartfelt feedback, and practical solutions for your next chapter.

Sessions are 50 minutes long and you will need anywhere from 4-10 sessions. Can be weekly, biweekly, monthly, or as needed. Let’s discuss and see what makes most sense for you!

Sex, Sexuality, Gender, and Relationship Affirming

My practice is your safe haven — however you define your sex, gender, and sexuality, whatever your sexual practices, and whatever type of relationship or family you are in or want to be in. You will be treated with respect and love. I am not merely “welcoming” or “accepting,” but actually Knowledgable and Affirming of diverse identities, practices, orientations, and relationship constellations.  I have worked for years supporting Non Monogamous and Monogamous individuals and relationships, mixed orientation couples, Poly, ENM, LGBTQAI2+, Kink/BDSM, Sex Workers, and relationships/family constellations ranging from typical to Alternative. I never, ever pathologize identities and consensual practices.  All identities and orientations are honored, understood, and supported in this coaching practice.

I hold a Doctorate in Pastoral Counseling and Clinical Education from Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion where I authored the groundbreaking study: Understanding the Spiritual and Faith Community Needs of People in Alternative Relationships.

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