“You deserve someone who makes you feel as if you have been struck by lightning. Don’t you dare settle for fine.”

-Roy Kent, Ted Lasso, Season 2, Episode 1

Reinforcements have arrived!

Love, connection, warmth, and trust are possible—no matter where you’re starting from or what you’ve been through. Whether you’re part of a couple, a triad, a blended family, a polycule, flying solo, or navigating a breakup or ending, I help you heal old wounds, break free from patterns, deepen intimacy, and build the safe, supportive relationships you deserve. Let’s meet over coffee at my Amsterdam office or connect online or by phone from anywhere in the world, and dive into real wisdom, heartfelt support and feedback, and practical solutions for your next chapter.

I’m Dr. Deb Berman, licensed psychotherapist and registered coach. I will tend the spirit of your relationships and support you in nurturing what works while courageously tackling what doesn’t. Together, we’ll build healthier patterns, craft practical solutions, and map a path forward grounded in kindness, clarity, and respect—without ever losing sight of your individual needs.

Some clients engage in deep, transformative work over several months to rewrite long-standing patterns and create new dynamics. Others seek focused, solution-driven support to move past specific challenges. Whether weekly, biweekly, monthly, or as needed, your coaching schedule will be tailored to your life and your goals.

Wherever you are starting from, let’s create a personalized plan that heals, empowers, and elevates your relationships—because you deserve nothing less than thriving, joyful connections and unwavering support.

Sex, Sexuality, and Gender Affirming

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