Begin your transformational journey online from anywhere in the world!

I am Dr. Deb Berman, registered coach and counselor. With 20 years experience, I offer radically compassionate, solution-focused coaching and counseling for individuals, relationships, and groups. Each session is a sanctuary — warm, real, and deeply rooted in both compassion and action. Together, we’ll create a solution-focused roadmap to heal what needs healing, learn what needs learning, and support you in claiming the life you’re meant to live.

You can work with me in-person at my beautiful Amsterdam office by Centraal Station or virtually via Zoom or Whatsapp and Signal. My sessions are accessible and flexible — coaching clients can meet with me weekly, every other week, monthly, or drop in as needed. Wherever you are in the world, we can create a consistent, supportive rhythm that fits your life.

As an accomplished registered coach, doctoral-level counselor, ordained yogi, and global theologian, I draw from a rich tapestry of Humanistic philosophies from East to West with a reverence for Diversity in all of its manifestations. My approach to helping you integrates contemporary and ancient wisdom, including Buddhist Psychology, Cognitive Behavioral Interventions, Ayurvedic Principles, Mindfulness, Somatic (Mind-Body) Coaching, Meditation and Mindfulness, Relationship Counseling, Life Coaching, Career Coaching, Spiritual-but-Not-Religious Counseling, Executive Functioning Coaching, Transformational Counseling, Queer and Alternative Relationship Theology, Radical Body Positivity, Cognitive Behavioral Interventions, Sex Positive Support, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Inner Child Work, Trauma and Grief Support, Feminist Theory, Interpersonal Coaching, and more.

This is not just coaching and counseling. This is a space for insight, growth, and deep restoration. Let’s build the life you’re here to live — one step at a time.

Session topics can include (but are certainly not limited to):

  • Emotional Well-being: Being human is hard—let’s meet the uncertainty, stress, up-and-down moods, and feeling stuck with compassion and real tools that actually help!
  • Relationship Rescue: Let’s give your relationship(s) a serious glow up—with new, practical skills! (Learn More)
  • Expats & Global Nomads: Practical, real life skills and a soft, consistent place to land when creating a new life and home from wherever you are in the world. (Learn More)
  • LGBTQ: Queers ones! Dear ones! This is a space where we get to talk about all the things! (Learn More)
  • Sex and Sexuality: Affirming and knowledgable support around diverse forms of intimacy, pleasure, and expression. (Learn More)
  • Family Dynamics: Tired of screaming into your pillow? Message me instead. I’ve got your back.
  • Feeling Stuck or Depleted: Break free from stagnation, repetition, or burnout to find renewed purpose and energy.
  • Divorce/Separation: I am your soft place to land. Let’s help you heal, rebuild, and feel whole again. (Learn More)
  • Career and Success: For any ambitious shape-shifters ready to crush their goals, level up fast, and make it work.
  • Setting Boundaries: Saying “no” is your birthright—and I’ll help make it your second nature, not second-guessing.
  • Creative & Performing Artists: I was a conservatory trained actor and classically trained vocalist, so I total get what your life is about. I will help you with your creative, personal, relationship, and life goals.
  • Narcissistic Abuse or DV: This is some insipid, soul-sucking shit—and yes, healing is possible.
  • Spiritual Spa: Slip into the warmth of being wrapped in Dr. Deb’s wisdom, mindfulness, meditations, and positive regard to help you feel better and ready to go seize the day.
  • Long Covid: We know it is real — it sucks and you are not alone.
  • Medical & Disability: While you are being treated by your doctors, come here to renew and regroup.
  • Workplace: Learn skills to cope with your environment and navigate workplace stress, and create a roadmap to get past barriers to success!
  • Identity & Self-Exploration: Support for exploring sex, desires, sexuality, gender, and more.
  • Holistic Living: Body positivity, developing self-care routines, and overcoming addictions/compulsions.
  • Trauma and Healing: Offering a safe space for survivors of trauma, abuse, grief and bereavement, and healing from injury.
  • Enhancing Well-being: Strategies for parenting, premarital counseling, navigating divorce or separation, and fostering healthy habits.
  • Loving Who You Are: Deepening self-love and affirmation in the face of societal norms and coping with discrimination or stigma.

I am Dr. Deb and I am here for you.

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