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THERAPY

The Life Alchemist
For High-Stakes
Transitions
& Radical Relationships

From beyond "functioning" to feeling unstoppable. No fluff, no whispering. Just deep wisdom, genuine warmth and support, keen insight, and the real talk you need to reclaim your life.

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Have you found that you are:

  • Desperate for a "reset" but not knowing where to start?

  • Exploring your sexuality or relationship desires?

  • Caught in a loop and can't see the exit?

  • Thinking that everyone else seems to have it figured out, but you don't?

  • People pleasing at the expense of your own boundaries?

  • Stuck and anxious about "getting it wrong" during a major life transition? 

Are you ready to step into your healing and live
an empowered life on your terms?

I'm ready to help you find resolution and make important life decisions, develop positive and fulfilling connections, and create a next chapter that actually fits your life.

Transformation
Coaching

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For people in big transitions—relocation, expat life, career shifts, divorce, illness, or spiritual change—who want a softer landing.

Map your transition, clarify what you want, and design practical next steps you can  follow.

Coaching - Worldwide

Relationships
& Sexuality

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Support for couples, polycules, blended families, and other relationship constellations in conflict, facing a big decision, or ready for a reset.


I am sex, sexuality, alt‑relationship, and gender positive.

Coaching - Worldwide

Individual
Psychotherapy

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Feel less overwhelmed and more grounded as you move through anxiety, burnout, grief, or major life changes.

Online sessions help you understand your patterns, and build tools that support you long‑term.

Online Therapy - NY Only

Dr. Deb Berman Happy

Dr. Deb Berman (she/they) is a licensed psychotherapist, doctoral-level counselor, and registered life coach who helps people find solutions, feel better, get through big transitions and relationships needing change, find steadier ground, clearer options, and a more livable next chapter.

For nearly two decades, Dr. Deb has worked with folx navigating anxiety, sadness, stress, burnout, major life transitions, mood issues, and complex relational dynamics. She divides her time between Amsterdam and New York City and works primarily online, supporting New York–based psychotherapy clients and also coaching clients around the world!

tESTIMONIALS

As the head of a television writers room, Deb helped me navigate a good work life balance.

C.L.

Dr. Deb is the rare combination of spiritual wisdom, philosophical insight, and rock-star energy.

M.G.

Dr. Deb is the sister, mother, coach, and truth-teller I didn’t know I was missing. She helped me get a life re-do and become the person I always wanted to be.

Z.M.

She gets it. The manipulation, the confusion, the guilt—they’re real, and [she] helped me name it, confront it, and crush it. I feel stronger, wiser, and finally untangled from the toxic mess.

H.D.

We trust Dr. Deb with our most important relationship decisions. She helped us so much and we decided to stay together.

M.A.

Dr. Deb ... sees through the fog, calls you out on your BS, and shows you how to live with more clarity, courage, and joy than you thought possible. I am endlessly grateful.

L.B.

Begin Your Radical Evolution

Ready to reclaim your life?

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